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28.05.2018

We all follow the same pattern. Nowadays, it is absolutely incomprehensible for women, no matter how hard they try (consciously) and are already so humble, that men still fail to notice it.

Thanks to having access to subconscious of many women through their dreams, I can really confirm that it is about overcoming a big – huge fear in us and we are, therefore, suffering so much (through men).

In subconscious, this fear has only one name = “fear for life” and it is arriving in such an extent that I am taken aback myself. But the good news is that it started to surface indeed. It started opening up. It means that we (both women and men) are ready.

Every time when I see the million ways of the self-same stories in lives of people who come to me, I remind them of one and the same thing over and over again. What we see in our partner exists in us and requires our attention. Please be patient and try to see the truth inside yourself.

It means meet your vulnerability and transform your pains and wounds into power and creativity.

I swear that such an approach heals not only the relationship to one’s own inner female and male, but also external partner relations and even the state of health.

Again, it is only and only our pride (= fear) and a lack of awareness that do not allow us to enter the greatest happiness of life. Don’t be taken in by your pride.

Remain in the relationship and watch your dark sides through your partner. What your partner is telling about you. If you abandon the relationship due to your ego, I can guarantee that the next partner will be the same in a stronger or similar degree.

Do try to see via your partner who you are inside and how much and what you fear.

Answers are arriving and jealousy, wrongs and antipathies are surfacing for months, because the whole generation patterns are being dealt with.

The process is different for each of us – different people, different possible solutions. Nevertheless, there are similar principles that can guide us as to how we can use our intuition regarding what reaction is the right one for us and when.

What worked great for Mary can be fatal for Rosie’s relationship. The point really is to always follow your intuition and not to run away from your relationship due to your ego (in pain). At the most I recommend you to retreat or separate to have room to come to understand.

It is necessary to be patient and view the man as a person helping you in your self-acceptance.

Remember he outside always only shows the state of the male inside you. Our inner male is always basically our farther who was then confirmed from outside many times. That is why it is so much about becoming aware that I do not need confirmations anymore and I am ready to do something about it.

I have also asked the Akasha management for an advice…

How to work with men’s secretiveness and fear? Is it possible that their fear is multiplied because they are proud and do not want us to see their hesitation? What is your advice of help in being patient and working with this? As they are those we love so much and it is their support we need most. And how to work and trust without their confirmation of our love back? Especially at the beginning before we ourselves learn to find our power inside us.

A fair way is to perceive woman as a mother. A woman who can also be a mother to her partner if necessary! If necessary, she can work with vulnerability of his inner child. To be able to cure his inner child injuries or rather to accept his vulnerability consciously the man mainly needs to trust the woman. Since only his being vulnerable consciously will allow his heart remain open and enjoy the woman’s love.

How can I guide him to this conscious vulnerability?

Ask for him to become aware of his emotions and guide him through questions to understand that to be vulnerable is completely natural and healthy. Not through lecturing or monologues, but through questions where he can feel everything because when already semi-open the man gets affectionate. The man’s depth of feelings is the woman’s depth of love.

In practice, I exercise it by getting myself on the wavelength of that part of me which is in consciousness and humility (particularly by seeing in self-reflection how much of the unconscious I have already understood) and I work from that point on. Most importantly, I must put myself in the mood for the masculine “state” of readiness. I put my breathing in harmony with the man, which lets me enter his field fully. I get the feel of his condition. Depending on that I ask questions. But always ask only one. And at the next occasion another. It is subsiding and settling inside him and we again learn to be patient. Never talk to your husband immediately when he comes home from work! On the contrary, the best time to ask him a good, evoking question is after sex.

The closer a woman gets to herself and her inner male, not the external one, and loves him, the more this inner love will reflect in the external man. They supply energy to each other and the man thus gets power and confidence to continue. Do meet the inner male as often as possible. That is an advice.

In practice, I exercise it during meditations by imagining my inner male that is always connected to my father. It is highly important to approach him during the meditation to settle this relationship with real humility. Then your intuition itself will guide you.

Additional rules which I highly recommend from my (and my female clients’) own experience:

Every day repeat the mantra to heal emotions of jealousy, annoyance, anger, wrong or blame. Particularly to clean room for new, positive and loving feelings.

GAYATRI MANTRA

Óm Bhur Bhuvaha Suvaha

Tath Savithur Varenyam


Bhargo Devasya Dhimahi


Dhiyo Yonaha Prachodayath

I recommend you to buy MALA and repeat the mantra 108 times before falling asleep. It will purify you completely and wash away all the silts of the patterns which are not in harmony with your nature. 

Translation:

Let us meditate on Isvara and His Glory who has created the Universe, who is fit to be worshipped, who is the remover of all sins and ignorance – may he enlighten our intellect.

The Word of God says that Gayatri mantra is the mother of all mantras. All the mantras consist in Gayatri mantra. Guruji pointed out that Krishna had said in the Gíta: “Out of all mantras I am Gayatri mantra.” Four Vedas consist in this mantra itself, having unbelievable power – with a potential to give full knowledge and wisdom – by personification of four Vedas, to purify and liberate soul. Gayatri is the mother of Vedas. It is a remover of sins. Neither this Earth nor the Heaven has another mantra more sacred and purer than Gayatri mantra.

Remember that on a daily basis we need to deal with new ideas at 95% and old ones only at 5%.

Take notes about everything new coming and how you view progress outside. It is important to take notice of every detail which can shorten the time before I realise that I am jealous and therefore I change it faster.

Read an article about what relationships teach us about ourselves. Because it is always about our mindset. Depending on that we choose words and intonation and everything is perceivable. We are thus transparent.

When confidence does not come from outside, it has not been saturated inside. Continue with giving vent to emotions regularly.

Be more aware of that injured, pained little girl, the child inside, waiting for love from outside. Feed it from inside, by loving yourself and through meditations. Meditations vibrate our connection to a higher level and there absolutely clear instructions come to your mind.

Whenever you become aware of pain and related wrong, perceive it as if it were seen by you. See that now you can complete it and finish its cure by feeling and showing your emotions every day. By safe expression of our emotions we feed the understood child inside. In the finale, we also enable the man to feel safety where he can open up his heart so far closed.

As soon as this process is understood, it needs to be satiated with new ideas of trust, love and safety by taking care of ourselves and putting ourselves first. 

We can give others only from a surplus! This is a rule which is confirmed by how much energy you feel. When you feel tired, it is still a giving in expectation.

Regular work with the feminine principle in balance with the masculine one

1. Write down your needs as a woman and those as a mother (we can gradually add them to the list as they arrive).
2. Harmonise your inner female and male – by an internal analysis during meditations. For a partnership it is mainly important to bring your inner male/female into accord with the external picture.
Ask for it for awareness of his emotions and guide him through questions to understand that it is absolutely natural and healthy to be vulnerable. 
3. Write down whether you still feel some fears on the path to freedom and with it by changing the pattern – a separate guide will be in a new article.
4. Practice reinforcement of crystal chakra in a conversation with the Sun and the Earth. This activates our crystal chakra which vibrates us to the frequency of love.
5. Reinforcement of the pelvic muscle as our biggest muscle of conscious intuition. By this exercise you reinforce your intuition. Then it also works great in the sexual area (as a secondary effect :))
6. Reinforcement of awareness that the essence of our life is FREEDOM and the sense of our life is JOY. When we adhere to these two ideas at the moment when we ask for answers to our questions, we always get a clear answer. And above all, we are able to accept it. Because we do not have resistance in our vibration field for the answer to pass by us. Answers to all of our questions are always present. We only need to get on the wavelength of the acceptance vibration. Essence = freedom + sense of life = joy.

In my new book I will mention a number of dreams of women who gave me permission to publish their dreams. It will make your flesh creep how similarly and strongly the dreams show what horrors of the past we are currently overcoming.

We will overcome it. We have the absolute support of the universe. But the most important thing is: We as women will manage the transformation by stopping competing with each other and by starting supporting each other fully and unconditionally.

Love, 

Eva